Positive Parenting
All parents want to be loved and do not want their child to feel negatively about them when being disciplined. Positive parenting emphasizes empathy, communication, and understanding to foster a healthy parent-child relationship and promote positive behavior. Here are some strategies for exercising positive parenting with your 2 to 6-year-olds:
Establish Clear and Age-Appropriate Expectations: Set clear and simple rules that are easy for young children to understand. CONSISTENCY is key.
Use Positive Reinforcement: Praise and encourage your child's positive behavior frequently. Focus on specific actions or efforts rather than general praise. For example, instead of saying, "You're such a good girl/boy," say, "I'm proud of you for sharing your toys with your sister."
Provide Choices: Offer your child choices whenever possible to give them a sense of autonomy and control. For example, let them choose between two acceptable options for snacks or activities. BUT, stick to the choices you gave to give a clear signal that you are still in charge.
Model Positive Behavior: Children learn by observing their parents' actions. Model patience, kindness, and respect in your interactions with others, including your child.
Use Positive Language: Communicate with your child using positive language, focusing on what they should do rather than what they should not. For example, instead of saying, "Don't run," say, "Please walk."
Practice Active Listening: Pay attention to your child's feelings and concerns, and validate their emotions. Encourage them to express themselves openly, and listen without judgment. Extra tip: Responding when your Little Ones call out to you will make them feel heard and can prevent them from forming the habit of shouting.
Offer Guidance and Support: Help your child learn problem-solving skills by offering guidance and support rather than solving problems for them. Encourage them to come up with their own solutions when they face challenges.
Use Time-In Instead of Time-Out: Instead of using punitive measures like time-outs, use time-ins as an opportunity to connect with your child and teach them about their emotions. Sit with them calmly and discuss their behavior and how they can make better choices next time. You will be surprised at what our Little Ones express during these little chats!
- Maintain a Positive Relationship: Prioritize building a strong and positive relationship with your child. Spend quality time together, engage in activities they enjoy, and show them love and affection regularly.